Ramgarhia Rishtay - The Sikh Wedding Traditions
Who are Ramgarhia People?
Ramgarhia is an ethnic tribe
originated in the regions of Punjab, who got their name after Sardar Jassa
Singh Ramgarhia. He was the leader of the Ramgarhia Misl, the army of Ramgarhia
people. The name Ramgarhia is a combination of “Ram” and “Garh,” which means Lord
and Fort, respectively. A majority of these tribes speak Punjabi with some
others speaking Hindi, and English. Jassa Singh was a carpenter turned leader,
and the tribe’s main occupation is carpentry and the likes, including
blacksmith works. Most of the Ramgarhia people have converted into Sikh through
ages, and hence they follow the Sikh tradition of marriage. Their wedding is
known as Ramgarhia Rishtey.
Let us see the Sikh wedding
traditions in brief.
Sikh Pre-Wedding Rituals
·
Kurmai –
It is the engagement ceremony of the Sikh and the starter of the marriage
ceremony. Family members will gather and read Guru Granth Sahib and then fix
the marriage date. Then the bride and the groom will exchange gifts and
rings.
·
Chunni
Chadai – After Kurmai, the groom’s
family will go to the bride’s house, and his mother will cover the bride’s head
with a cloth named chunni. Then they will provide gifts and jewelry to the
bride.
·
Mehendi
and Chooda – This is the ceremony of decorating the bride’s hands and foot with beautiful Mehendi
designs followed by the gift of bangles and gold ornaments from her maternal
uncle.
·
Maiya –
On this day, neither the bride nor the groom is allowed to get out of their
houses. It is the day before the marriage.
·
Gana – The bride and groom will tie a sacred red thread on their hands.
·
Vatna
and Gharoli – This is the
process of applying turmeric paste to both the bride and the groom to get some
glow, and then they will take a bath with holy water.
Sikh Wedding Rituals
·
Baraat –
This is the ritual in which the groom will forward to the wedding venue along
with his friends and family members.
·
Milni –
In this ritual, the bride’s family will welcome the groom at the wedding venue
with some gifts.
·
Anand
Karaj – This is the actual wedding
ceremony. The bride and the groom seated in the Gurudwara, the Sikh temple.
Some religious songs will fill the place, and the priest will recite the holy
book of Sikhs.
·
Laavan
Pheras – Laavan is a set of holy
prayers. The bride and the groom will chant the prayers and take rounds around
the holy book, Guru Granth Sahib.
Sikh Post-Wedding Rituals
·
Reception
– This is a family gathering
after the wedding to celebrate the union of two souls and families with some
fun and sweets.
·
Doli –
This is the goodbye time for the bride’s family. The bride will give her mother
some rice to symbolically thank her for raising her all these years.
·
Pag
Phera – The bride and the groom will
visit the bride’s house after the wedding, and the bride stays there for two to
three days, after which the groom will come and take her back to his
home.
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